What are some condolences card message ideas?

Some ideas for messages to include in a condolence card include "We are so sorry for your loss," "with deepest sympathy" and "you are in our thoughts." Messages should state how the writer truly feels without mentioning details on whether the deceased was ill or how the person died, recommends the Emily Post Institute.

Some other options for messages in a condolence card are "thinking of you," "holding you close to my thoughts," "we miss her too" and "sharing in your sadness." If the writer knew the deceased, but none of the surviving family members, it is best to include the connection to their relative, notes Hallmark.